Toadfish Monastery

I think we should allow ourselves the luxury to speak our mind without worrying that someone is offended by it. I mean otherwise we cannot learn anything from each other if we all the time say... ahhh this is offensive, this is over the line, this is touching my bits... etc.
To me there's nothing at all whats-o-ever can offend or upset me!

This clearly means I'm censored in which insight I can disclose and which I have to hide... That's how it was under communism in East Germany!
See, I don't have this problem when I ponder and reason with myself. There I can be totally honest about my thoughts and views. It's been long time since I left East Germany. No wonder I got used to freedom of speech, but now the red flag hangs over me once again, Oh no, please!
Sure, my insight isn't perfect, but as I mentioned (many times) it's amendable. What more can one wish for? So, it's not true that I don't want to learn something. You see to enjoy revenge more than humility, don't you? That's a neg trait I think... I don't want to amend my insight with that; sorry. Well, it's almost 1 a.m... Allow me to dream about it. Good night!   

  There are countless reasons why some of us inherited less than healthy genes. One thing is sure that nature had a reason for each and every created flawed gene pattern. I.e. nothing is coincidental. Albeit to us the true reason is unknown most of the time, some reasons, such as the consequence of alcohol, drug abuse, smoking etc. are known. I wouldn't be surprised that horrendous situations, such as war, torture etc. might as well trigger neg genetic mutations. Yes, there's something we can/ should do, namely: learning to co-operate with nature. Here's how:
>>> Society should aim at creating and maintaining a high standard of family values, because it benefits society in every aspect and ultimately it's going to benefit our evolution as well. Dismantling or at least curbing of inherited/ environmentally acquired neg traits is a good way to start.  Next, we need to ensure that every family offers their children love & affection. The first four years of a child's life on parent should be with the child at all times. Parents, who don't know how to offer their children love and affection (because they themselves suffered a cruel childhood), need to be instructed and practice it. This way their children will be able to break the vicious cycle and become good parents. I don't think it's something too hard to believe and please don't ask me how I arrive at this 'Hitler's Utopia', because pondering and reasoning (like fresh air... and Hitler's Utopia) is available to all of us. Just grab yourself a swastika and stick it up your... mind!!   

P.S. We abuse our bodies with stress and drugs etc. and torture our hearts and minds with varies neg traits day in, day out. No wonder our bodies fail to deliver the desired results. Our bodies are subtle machines and as such require all the care (such as a healthy diet) and emotional peace to accomplish all these intricate genetic processes.

QuoteChildbirth is far from perfect. It is still a killer of women and children.  A natural killer. One which humans mess with and prevent correction to survival of the fittest. Steralisation of bad pelvic females may be needed.

Women have the choice/ right not to have children. Bad pelvic women are aware of their condition and thus, need to abstain from childbearing or choose the Cesarean method. Or could it be (like homosexuality) that nature tries to curb population growth in this way?

QuoteWe are all so unnatural and imperfect!

     Speak for yourself!

QuoteI would like to suggest some kind of cleansing programme

Buy yourself a Maytag washer and washing powder!

Quoteto rid us of these imperfect specimens. a sort of 'final solution' to mans imperfections that will pave the way for 1000 years of JJJ utopia.

Now don't dare to drag me into your personalized 'Hitler' utopia program, will you?

 

QuoteI find myself unable to change the whole world.
All I can do is change me.
I am committed to that.

Yes, that was my philosophy, too!

QuoteI will be what I want the world to be.

Not good enough, because you still depend on others... who envy your contentment and believe that they get more for themselves by robbing you!.
That's why all people of good will should co-operate towards a better society!

Quotemay i ...suggest a programme that will bring puissance through ecstacy?

I was told to be more 'serious' or else I wan't have a job here in the forum. 

 

QuoteIsn't it too early for a child to join a "work group" at the age of nine?

OK, let's call this group "Hobby Group"( HG)! This indicates that the child is going to choose a HG it likes best! After some time the teacher is going to find out if the child is good at it or if it only went to this HG for other reasons, just because the friend joint it or, because there they make cakes, for example.

QuoteHow does a child decide that it doesn't need algebra at the age of nine? The parents? I didn't want to do algebra at the age of nine, and now I'm glad I didn't reject it, as I needed it in my later years.

If the HG is such that algebra is vital than of course this HG teaches it.

QuoteIMO, those "work groups" as you suggested would make sence later, at middle school (or high school), not so early. 
The point is... it offers the child to discover and develop its unique abilities and talents as early as possible. The earlier the better, because it's far easier to learn when one is younger.
They're not taught to think about the things they read. Once arriving at university (or any higher degree school), they are asked to think about things, build their opinions, use the things they are taught on a practical level and not just memorise them.

Yes... you nearly got it. >>> They should not only read and think about it... but learn to originate new ideas from what they study!

QuoteThere are also many heterosexuals engaging in "activities" that I suppose you would classify as norm breaking... what do you call them?

OK on a more serious not:  If our partner relationship is founded on genuine emotional compatibility, than there's no need for 'norm breaking activities'.

Quotemuscle destruction due to lesbian "activities" which are to be considered as homosexual "activities" since two people of the same sex are involved. 

Obviously, lesbian activities don't necessarily involve penetration. Thus, muscle destruction can be discounted. In cases, where women use object for penetration, muscle destruction can equally occur. Women's genital tissues also becomes thinner (weaker) with age.

 

QuoteYour response failed to address any of these, instead taking a condescending tone, and now (I do beg you to correct me if I'm wrong) you seem to consider Chatty's post adequately responded to.

Showing love and affection isn't condescending... its rather compassionate, I would think.  Yet again it shows that it can be made to be understood this way. The crucial question is: was it meant to be condescending or compassionate?
A: You (all) should know me by now that I abhor to think and act negatively... thus, only the pos remains/ applies. So, please stop highlighting the neg on every move I make. 

Here's the revised edition:
Don't worry... for we all love you! Have  from me, but now stop   

QuoteI don't LIKE being condescended to OR insulted.

I don't like it either. No problem with that, but the moment someone shows/ offers you compassion and you spit them in the face, saying: I don't like being condescended then that's your problem. One has to live with the body we have been given... and make the best out of it, remembering, that some other people are even worse off. My dearest aunt, 'Tante Mieze' lived paralyzed from the hip down in a wheelchair and managed to laugh it off for 40 long years, till the age 98! Also, she lived alone in a flat and did all her household chores till the last day.
Did you notice that people of any minority group are strong on protesting for all the wrong reasons? Here in Australia it starts with Aborigines, members of pious organizations right through to Asians and homosexuals. Once I reached out to give an elderly lady a hand to get into the bus... as she yelled at me: Don't touch my bad arm you fool! I immediately let go and I rather close my eyes than to help her again. She saw that I tried to help her and could have easily pointed out which arm was bad. Lucky I didn't grab her head, because it seemed far worse then her arm!

Does your school offer you some kind of help with vocation seeking?
Most young people have serious problems on deciding what they want to do in life.
Years ago, I toyed with the idea of an alternative school system:
Say a child enters school aged five. The first 4 years I would teach them the basics of writing, reading, math, bit of history, geography, physics, biology etc. Then the child would join a 'Work Group' (WG) of its choice. There would be a number of WG, reflecting/ simulating real vocation.
This system would cut down on wasting precious learning years on something (like algebra) the student might never apply/ need in your future vocation as adult. Also, it would enable young people to discover and develop their unique abilities and talents far earlier.   

QuoteEnvy and power-hunger are only ambition cranked way up.  Selfishness is only too much self-interest (and possessiveness is only too much regard for material posessions), and aggression is only assertiveness taken too far.  Anger (or rage) can be a positive trait when used properly; much of the Civil Rights movement came out of anger at the status quo, for example.

That's why we should dismantle them instead of putting up with them or worse, fostering them. If you analyze every neg/ detrimental result the true cause was a (or several) neg trait(s).

QuoteChildbirth...

Women's bodies are designed to take it; men not.

Quote...no amount of piano practice will change your genes.

Since you know it, please explain how (for instants) a musical talent is inherited, if it's not, because an ancestor from that particular family tree was musically active?  On Boxing Day I used to ask my little fans: 'What did you get for Christmas? I got a whistle!  See, that explains it all or does it?

QuoteI'm curious about the 3-5% statistic you cite from your personal observations. How did you arrive at that, exactly? (And not just "through observation," please. What was your method for gathering and analyzing the data to support this finding?)

Taking in account that it took some 26 generations for a world renowned concert pianist (a relative) for him to excel (plus personal experiences), makes me arrive at that evolution pace. He comes from a piano builder family tree... Mind you, not every child inherits its parents unique abilities or talents.

QuoteLamarckism...

trust me he stole it from me!    I enjoy to do my own reasoning on that matter, albeit I don't mind to amend it at a given time as the opportunity arises. For now I'm quite satisfied to have tracked it down thus far.
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Quoteow you are running around the monastery  waving it about , showing it off and stirring  the contents of every damn toilet you can find .

Good fun! Jeez, I wished I could apply English like that...

QuoteYou haven't been to Thailand...

Stay clear of Thailand, because a friend of my brother was their two years ago, caught AIDS and now my brother got his ashes. At least hairs between fingers won't kill you!
If you are really desperat, do it like me: My sweetheart is in Chile and I have to renovate my flat here in Sydney. Albeit I'm still horny as the neighbor's 'Lumpi' I'm not tempted to look for a woman here. I built myself a very efficient machine! Much better than the pink stuff on sale in those weird shops. End of that problem!

Good on you, mate!   

 

QuoteI'm a little startled by the notion of 'bringing back love into family life', when was it ever taken out? And by whom? And how? If you are saying that some people are dysfunctional and don't show love in their family life, are you then concluding that this is general, or even common?

Every child wishes to be born into loving family environment. Sadly, this is not always the case. Personally, I enjoyed/suffered both situations and have no doubt which one to recommend. Offering a child a cruel childhood has its serious consequences; not only for the child, but the community at large. Listening to childhood stories of criminal ...one almost pardons their horrendous crimes committed.
The power of parental love is incredible; it changes your whole life. You'll be much happier with yourself and a great spouse!  To thoroughly describe the countless advantages thereof one needs to experience it. Words cannot describe the power of parental love and affection and their impact on our lives. If you suffered a cruel childhood you won't understand what I'm on/ raving about. Forget it!

QuoteOn the other hand, if you would prefer that an idea not be scrutinized and honestly responded to, you are under no obligation to share it.

POINT TAKEN!   

Don't worry... for we all love you! Have  from me, but now stop   

QuoteI don't LIKE being condescended to OR insulted.

I don't like it either. No problem with that, but the moment someone shows/ offers you compassion and you spit them in the face, saying: I don't like being condescended then that's your problem. One has to live with the body we have been given... and make the best out of it, remembering, that  some other people are even worse off. My dearest aunt, 'Tante Mieze' lived paralyzed from the hip down in a wheelchair and managed to laugh it off for 40 long years, till the age 98! Also, she lived alone in a flat and did all her household chores till the last day.
Did you notice that people of any minority group are strong on protesting for all the wrong reasons? Here in Australia it starts with Aborigines, members of pious organizations right through to Asians and homosexuals. Once I reached out to give an elderly lady a hand to get into the bus... as she yelled at me: Don't touch my bad arm you fool! I immediately let go and I rather close my eyes than to help her again. She saw that I tried to help her and could have easily pointed out which arm was bad. Lucky I didn't grab her head, because it seemed far worse then her arm!

QuoteI don't call homosexuality 'evil'.

Sure, nothing stops us to confuse negat traits with genetic abnormalities. Yet, the difference is that neg traits, such as envy, selfishness, aggression, rage, possessiveness, power-hunger etc. are indeed undesired, destructive neg traits, whereas physical handicaps or abnormalities are merely undesired physical shortcomings.

QuoteAccording to your observation of the majority as the standard by which nature's "intention" can be measured, do you consider all men to be abnormal?

All people seem normal until we get to know them...

QuoteWhat about all non-asian people?

Same with them. My global experience taught me that there exist only two nationalities in the world: the good and the bad (+ in movies... the ugly!) Beside, I thought I answered your question with the following:
>>>My method of observing nature and reasoning isn't rigid. To the contrary... quite adaptable/ flexible and takes into account diverse factors, depending on the matter to be investigated. In some cases it's the norm, which is crucial, in other cases it the shape, size, weight, frequency, color, circumstances, intensity etc.

I wrote, "Allow me to speak out, dear, strict Moderators!" permission and so hopeful to beg permission and avoid getting another warning.
It's my uncertainty... because I never know when/ if my written words/thought might offend anyone here. Beside, I assure you that nothing said in here is ever going to offend me... but your overreactions to my words / insight and warnings... worry me somewhat; that's all.
Next please!   

QuoteAre you aware that women can get irreparable damage to their genital area when raped. How does that fit in in your "human body is designed for heterosexual activities" theory?

Abuse of all sorts is invariably destructive. Yet, usual/ regular or normal (heterosexual) intercourse is considered neither harmful, nor destructive, whereas homosexual activities easily causes skin/ tissue rupture and in the long run irreparable muscle destruction, because the skin is far weaker and designed to merely evacuate digested food.

QuoteThere are also many heterosexuals engaging in "activities" that I suppose you would classify as norm breaking... what do you call them?

Confused perv's!    Suffering from sexual disorientation/ perversion.

QuoteAlso, I have never heard about...

It's about time you hear about!   

Quote..."muscle destruction" due to lesbian "activities" which are to be considered as homosexual "activities" since two people of the same sex are involved.   

That's, because they are missing the vital male bits and if they substitute them with objects, the result will be the same; albeit women's tissues are more flexible. Men have more muscles and women more flap.

QuoteFrankly, this line of arguments are as dumb as the old one that your brain will decay and you will grow hair on the palms of your hand if you masturbate! 

I agree and to avoid it I got married, yet now hair seems to grow between teeth; go to dentist for haircuts.
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QuoteGenes do not constantly mutate.  It's very possible that the genes passed down to a child from the parents are completely identical to the parents...

I reason that, by engaging in prolonged activities, such as practicing piano for years, we actually amend our genetic make-up and estimate that every generation is limited to enrich its gene program by some 3-5% and it's not always guaranteed that our offspring is going to inherit our personal contribution.

Yes, 'average' seems a better term... but we need to do a bit of lateral thinking. Thanks for doing it on this one...

QuoteI think it's silly how jjj accuses others of judging and goes on to call things "evil", etc.

I didn't call homosexuality 'evil'.
Our inherited/ acquired, neg traits causing us to act evil.

Somehow we need to bring back love into the family life. Not an easy task, but let's think of how this can be achieved... My Idea is EPE or early, philosophical education... what's yours? (Why should I alway put my best notions forward and them be gurgled up as 'wrong' and compared to Hitler?