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Title: Stuart
Post by: Griffin NoName on August 20, 2012, 06:04:23 AM
American Stuart, a Life Lived Backwards (http://www.amazon.com/Stuart-Life-Backwards-Alexander-Masters/dp/0385340885/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1345438226&sr=1-1)

UK Stuart, a Life Lived Backwards (http://www.amazon.co.uk/Stuart-Life-Backwards-Alexander-Masters/dp/0007200374/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1345439034&sr=1-1)

Essentially a documentary. Best description of Borderline Personality Disorder I've ever come across, demonstrated by the desciptions of Stuart's life and conversation. Excellent on homelessness. A really explorative book which manages to pin down areas of society which are normally elusive. Set in areas I know well, hostels I know, even the odd character I have actually come across, and a political/criminal case involving local people which was a real live issue amongst us towndwellers. Somehow despite the rather grim main topics, this book manages to keep one chuckling, but is no less forceful because of this. I did live in the next road to the main hostel, so no surprise I was keen to read this book, but nonetheless, I recommend it.

Title: Re: Stuart
Post by: Roland Deschain on August 23, 2012, 01:39:28 PM
Reading some of the reviews there, it sounds very intriguing. To see what someone is now; someone you'd most likely not empathise wit; then to go slowly back in time to the child they once were, will probably make some feel uncomfortable with how they treat the homeless and the mentally ill. People can be so quick to dismiss those in the same situation, especially those committing crimes because of illness, as being worthless, and I have definitely been one of them in the past, but if you knew the person behind that, and how they got to that stage, you would maybe change your mind.

A book to instil a little compassion, maybe. Thanks for the recommendation, Griffin. I'll stick it on my to-read list, and get to it some time soon.
Title: Re: Stuart
Post by: Griffin NoName on August 23, 2012, 09:00:05 PM
I have become more tolerant over some things as I have learnt things along the way. On the other hand I think I have become less tolerant on some other things. For example, we pretty much had open house for years and years, nearly always extra people staying/living with us. It was great. But now I can't even imagine sharing my home even with one other person!