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Started by Sibling Zono (anon1mat0), July 16, 2009, 01:25:56 AM

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Darlica

Woha!

We have a discussion again, nice! :mrgreen:

IMHO Prohibiting the use of the burqa, hijab or chador is as bad as forcing someone to wear one.

It's not the cloth it self that are discriminating it is the social context where women are forced wear them. If a women freely chose to cover herself, fine it's not any of my business, if someone force her, her human rights are violated and that's a crime that should be dealt with but honestly if she wants to wear for example a hijab and isn't allowed to do so by the government (like in French schools) her rights are violated in exactly the same way.

I think it's worth mentioning that even if most Islamic men doesn't cover their faces they have very strict rules about their clothing too and how much skin they can show in public (both men and women mixed) and it isn't much, that is one of the reasons women aren't allowed to watch football (soccer) in Saudi for example.

Both men and women are however freed from these rules in environments where only men or only women are present such as the public bath houses Haman and at home surrounded by the family.

I think we in the west have as much of a problem to wrap our heads around the cultural ideas and mindset of Islam as the Islamic world have a problem to understand our secularized society.
I think the idea of atheism is especially troublesome to grasp (I think we have a problem with most religious mindsets actually).



I have a friend, a former neighbour, who is aTurkish Syrian Orthodox Christian, she asked me one day when we were discussing religion amongst other things -how do you cope with the setbacks of life if you don't believe in God, who do you turn to with your sadness and anger and what thoughts comforts you?

That shut me up for quite a while.







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Aggie

Quote from: Darlica on July 16, 2009, 10:41:55 PMI have a friend, a former neighbour, who is aTurkish Syrian Orthodox Christian, she asked me one day when we were discussing religion amongst other things -how do you cope with the setbacks of life if you don't believe in God, who do you turn to with your sadness and anger and what thoughts comforts you?

That shut me up for quite a while.

Sounds like another discussion, a very Taddy one. I think the answer is "people"; the Monastery itself actually evolved fairly quickly in that direction.  The difference and the difficulty lies in the fact that people can much more easily let you down than God can (so long as you maintain your faith).
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Quote from: Sibling Zono (anon1mat0) on July 16, 2009, 02:01:00 PM
Quote from: Pachyderm on July 16, 2009, 01:55:40 PM
I find it very handy when sneaking around Mecca, drawing pictures of the Prophet Mohammed in crayon on the Masjid al-Haram.  ::)
:ROFL:

OK, if there are no takers on defense I'll defend (and to put more spice on the topic): the use of these kind of garments is for the women's protection.

Fire away...  :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
This is why a lady invented the penis=http://www.abc.net.au/wa/stories/s1455383.htm fly trap.
Also, I think it's quite obvious that it doesn't work. I doubt most of the rapes that happen in the Middle East and in other restrictive societies are ever, ever reported. We only hear about the ones that cause a big stir and I'm sure there are no small number of rape victims who are killed without any legal authority knowing about it.

Quote from: Griffin NoName on July 16, 2009, 03:49:21 PM
Quote from: Sibling Zono (anon1mat0) on July 16, 2009, 02:01:00 PM
: the use of these kind of garments is for the women's protection.
And in any case, the origin is to do with men not women; they are actually for men's protection in case they get lewd thoughts and dismay their gods. I've always thought these feeble men should learn how to be the masters of their own minds without constant help.
RUMBLE. It's the lazy route, with an added "out of sight, out of mind" attitude. I don't think the out-of-sight thing works, since I'm sure that there's a lot of fantasizing about what could be under that burqa. (*narrator voice over* He heard her voice only once, and it was soft and melodic. He began to dream of her...)

[quote author=Sibling Zono (anon1mat0)
I really do believe that at the beginning the use of such clothing was intended for the woman's protection, but there is a context for that, namely that the cultures that use it were originally nomads, where laws were enforced by custom rather than organized force (aka police). If you have a daughter, she is barely attractive, and any sex starved man happen to walk by in the middle of the desert, he could be inclined to rape and/or kidnap the woman and get away (literally) with it, without any chance of retribution. Add to that the fact that women are considered property and defensive measures to protect such property become mandatory.
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The first evidence of a dress code like the burqa appears in Mesopotamia, well after they would have settled down. House maids and hookers weren't allowed to were a veil but every other female had to  (Agujjim's theory regarding the veil/burqa as a mark of ownership is more accurate, I think).
Also, I can't think of any nomadic people that have such a dress code.
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Swatopluk

I might add that some Fathers of the Church (no nomads they, at least in the classical sense) would consider women in Iran and Saudi Arabia severely underdressed because it still possible to recognize the wearers as similar to human beings. St.Hieronymus (the translator of the Bible into Latin) even "rewrote" the text by proclaiming that a woman has to cover up because "she is not in the image of God". If we followed the logic, the human female has to be made invisible because the fact has to be hidden that God screwd up (why else should a visible woman be an abomination). Those are the same guys that, in effect, blaspheme against their God by claiming that humans in general should be ashamed of their body despite it being a creation of God.
Btw, some argue that there is significance in that there is no "And God saw it was good" after the verse about the creation of Man unlike after the earlier verses about God's other creations ;).
Knurrhähne sind eßbar aber empfehlen würde ich das nicht unbedingt.
The aspitriglos is edible though I do not actually recommend it.

Sibling Zono (anon1mat0)

For those who haven't yet read the wiki article that Aggie mentioned before this is the bit about it's history (my emphasis):
Quote from: burqa articleThis type of dress has its origins with desert times long before Islam arrived. It had two functions. Firstly as a sand mask in windy conditions. This would be worn by men and women and is still common today. For women only the masking of the face and body was used when one group was being raided by another. These raids often involved the taking of women of child bearing age. With all women hidden behind a veil, and the home team fighting back, the chances of being taken were substancially reduced as the women of child bearing age could not be quickly distinguished from the very young and the old.

Many Muslims believe that the Islamic holy book, the Qur'an, and the collected traditions of the life of Muhammed, or hadith, require both men and women to dress and behave modestly in public. However, this requirement, called hijab, has been interpreted in many different ways by Islamic scholars (ulema) and Muslim communities (see Women and Islam); the burqa is not specifically mentioned in the Quran.
What I believe has to be taken into account is that it's current [ab]use does not mean that there wasn't a good reason for it to exist (like many of the odd bits in Moses law like not eating shellfish). The other argument is one I heard in an interview in which the woman claimed that she would feel naked in the street without it.

In general terms, the fact that it's current use is definitively backwards and it's enforcement a nasty form of suppression, a woman could conceivable consider herself more protected using one, and I'm sure that while never reaching that extreme, western women occasionally find themselves in environments in which they would rather dress in a conservative way to avoid nasty glances*.

* my wife used to work for an auto parts company and she usually told me how uncomfortable she was when she had to go to the warehouse where the mechanics and machinists worked, or the not too subtle comments they made at times. 
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Aggie

I plead guilty to article-scanning and selective reading! :mrgreen: :oops:

Mind, in this context it makes sense (tribal wife-raiding); I still don't buy into the random attacker hypothesis. ;)

Quote from: Sibling Zono (anon1mat0) on July 17, 2009, 02:44:39 PM
* my wife used to work for an auto parts company and she usually told me how uncomfortable she was when she had to go to the warehouse where the mechanics and machinists worked, or the not too subtle comments they made at times. 

My women co-workers get enough unwanted attention in the field in full PPE, which would pass for modest clothing in most places (full neck to toe coveralls, steel-toed boots, hard hat, safety glasses and gloves). Most of the comments stay relatively subtle, but sometimes lines are crossed. 
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Griffin NoName

Quote from: Agujjim on July 16, 2009, 06:14:35 PM
Really, the big issue is whether women are free to choose how to dress .............

Some women who where burkas say it is by free choice. I don't believe them. IMHO they have been brainwashed into minding about having their sexual bits on display (like their nose!).

Quote from: Pachyderm on July 16, 2009, 06:40:26 PM
If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?

:ROFL:
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Sibling Zono (anon1mat0)

Quote from: Griffin NoName on July 17, 2009, 04:14:02 PM
IMHO they have been brainwashed into minding about having their sexual bits on display (like their nose!).
Hey, all the body is sexual, ever heard of foot fetish*?

*Actually that is the kind of deviation that could be traced to a society where only feet are visible... ;)
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Swatopluk

As opposed to the Chinese where genitals were at times depicted freely but not the female naked foot
Knurrhähne sind eßbar aber empfehlen würde ich das nicht unbedingt.
The aspitriglos is edible though I do not actually recommend it.

Aggie

Quote from: Swatopluk on July 17, 2009, 07:46:45 PM
As opposed to the Chinese where genitals were at times depicted freely but not the female naked foot

ROFL, have you ever seen a picture of the bare foot that results from foot-binding?

QuoteFeng Xun is recorded as stating, "If you remove the shoes and bindings, the aesthetic feeling will be destroyed forever" -- an indication that men understood that the symbolic erotic fantasy of bound feet didn't correspond to its unpleasant physical reality, which was therefore to be kept hidden. For men, the primary erotic effect was a function of the lotus gait, the tiny steps and swaying walk of a woman whose feet had been bound. Women with such deformed feet avoided placing weight on the front of the foot and tended to walk predominantly on their heels. As a result, women who underwent foot binding walked in a careful, cautious and unsteady manner.[6] The very fact that the bound foot was concealed from men's eyes was, in and of itself, sexually appealing. On the other hand, an uncovered foot would also give off a foul odor, as various fungi would colonise the unwashable folds.

:o
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Swatopluk

Yes, I have. And what you quote is obviously the reason for the taboo (and not some specific rampant foot fetishism on the Chinese side). Btw, the Japanese didn't need that. The special cut of female clothing had about the same (intended) effect.
Knurrhähne sind eßbar aber empfehlen würde ich das nicht unbedingt.
The aspitriglos is edible though I do not actually recommend it.

Griffin NoName

Quote from: Sibling Zono (anon1mat0) on July 17, 2009, 02:44:39 PM
Quote from: burqa article
This type of dress has its origins with desert times long before Islam arrived. It had two functions. Firstly as a sand mask in windy conditions.

Oooh! Those nasty cracks and crevices! I'd be more convinced by this argument if the burqa had divided legs tied at the ankles: otherwise it is a case of "Carry on Up the Burqa" !!

<smack wrist mode>
what do ladies wear under their Burqas?
<end smack wrist mode>

Quote from: Sibling Zono (anon1mat0) on July 17, 2009, 02:44:39 PM
I heard in an interview in which the woman claimed that she would feel naked in the street without it.

But so would I if I went out in my underwear. Most of us do wear "clothes" when out in the street and tend to feel not-naked. What a stange line of reasoning.

Quote from: Agujjim on July 17, 2009, 08:41:05 PM
QuoteFeng Xun is recorded as stating, "If you remove the shoes and bindings, the aesthetic feeling will be destroyed forever" -- an indication that men understood that the symbolic erotic fantasy of bound feet didn't correspond to its unpleasant physical reality, which was therefore to be kept hidden. For men, the primary erotic effect was a function of the lotus gait, the tiny steps and swaying walk of a woman whose feet had been bound..........

Whereas in England, the required gait is obtained by walking around with books balanced on ones head !  :D
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Tigger_the_Wing

If the complete covering of women is supposed to prevent lewd thoughts in men, then surely they've got the cart before the horse?

I am of the firm belief that, if men really are as weak-willed as all that, they should only be allowed in public when blindfolded, manacled and accompanied by at least two adult female relations. Of course, they would not be allowed to drive but think of all the crime/sins which would be prevented!

Then women AND men could wear whatever they like and no-one would be in danger.

Or they could simply accept women as being fully human and equal to men, as in more equitable societies, and the previous sentence would still apply.

I feel that enforcing any dress code at all demeans BOTH genders. Rape is simply an aberration unrelated to the clothing worn by, or the age or sex of, the victim. Men are better than that, as can be seen in societies where, traditionally, little or no clothing is worn.
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Sibling Zono (anon1mat0)

Quote from: Tigger_the_Wing on August 08, 2009, 07:45:34 PM
I feel that enforcing any dress code at all demeans BOTH genders.
Mmm, thousands of offices would disagree, on one end it can be quite distracting if the subject is attractive and perturbing if (s)he isn't. ;) :P

In a more open world people wouldn't mind* about how others are dressed but we do have some cultural baggage to get rid of first.

*and that might not even be possible considering that the way people dress has more to do with social conventions (how we are perceived by others and all that stuff) than practical ones (like the weather).
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Perhaps the current use of the burqa has no justification to us westerners because we see it directly linked to chauvinism, religion and/or tradition but the problem is that for them those are valid reasons, and think that the enforcement was more cultural on the Kandahar region until the rise of the Taliban who made it mandatory.
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Aggie

Quote from: Sibling Zono (anon1mat0) on August 09, 2009, 05:03:36 AM*and that might not even be possible considering that the way people dress has more to do with social conventions (how we are perceived by others and all that stuff) than practical ones (like the weather).

Oh, you've met my wife? ::) ;)
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